How long have you been doing what you do, and how did you become a divine feminine & blissbirth expert?
To answer this question, it’s probably best that I share with you a defining moment,
and a resulting “compelling story”, that brought me to where I am today – coaching
people like you on exactly what to do to unleash your divine feminine power and
create a blissful birth. That defining moment in my life happened in 2017.
Ten years prior, in 2007, I was pregnant with my first child. I was feeling exhausted, lost and scared. I was stressed at my corporate job, working like a “mad” woman, performing and choreographing for major dance shows, eating fast foods a lot because I was constantly on the go, and living with my ex-boyfriend who was driving me “nuts.” I had fears of getting fat, my dance career ending, miscarriage, preterm labor, labor pain, my baby coming out with webbed hands and a tail, breech labor, and dying. Coming from a strong family background of spiritual leaders and health consultants, I knew I needed to relax and stop stressing for the health of me and the baby so I began doing prenatal yoga, meditations, and eating healthier. My fears diminished, and my energy increased, but I was still physically exhausted and scared of the labor pain.
As a result, my birth was long, energy draining and painful: I was in a New York City hospital delivering my first child. I was strapped to an IV machine for hydration, the ceiling lights were super-duper bright and distracting, and no matter how deep I breathe my contractions were painful. The receptionist insisted that I fill out an application that I had already filled out a month prior to avoid this interruption, urgg! And to add “the icing on the cake” my normal doctor was on vacation, so I was assisted by two unfamiliar
doctors alternating delivery rooms. Eight hours in and I was constipated, moody, tired, hungry, and it was too late to take an epidural because I was fully dilatedAfter 10 long hours of constant pushing and screaming, I finally settled for peace, surrendered to the pain and gave birth to my baby boy vaginally, but tore 3 inches in my vagina that needed to be stitched up, “ouch!” and developed hemorrhoids.
Fast forward to 10 years later (2017) and I was pregnant again with my second child. This time around my challenges were different: I was away from family living in Texas, wasn’t living with my ex-boyfriend, driving an hour to and from work and my son’s school everyday, still dancing, not sleeping, and performing my normal motherly duties: attending and driving my son to all of his events, games, performances, meetings, and training classes. I was 37 years old, so the nurse at the clinic considered me a “high risk” patient and strongly advised me to deliver in a hospital. And since my last birth was 10 years ago, there was a high chance that my body had lost its “muscle memory” and would function like I was having my first child.
All I kept thinking was: “No, not again! Not another exhausting pregnancy with the potential of experiencing another stressful 10-hour long birth, in a hospital with bright ass lights, receptionists interrupting me, strapped to an IV machine, given a random doctor whom I am not comfortable with, and exiting the hospital all stitched up with hemorrhoids.”
I made a decision right then and there that I was going to figure out this whole “blissful birth thing”, this creating a pleasurable pregnancy and birth thing. At every moment, I made a commitment to immerse myself in absolutely everything that had to do with divine femininity, and pleasurable births: I got into orgasmic birthing, orgasmic meditations, aphrodisiac foods, Hypno-birthing, and I felt so fabulously sexy, relaxed, and had a
vaginal birth that lasted only 4 hours at a birthing center, with NO issues or pain, and it was so much more effortless than the first. My energy was so high that I was dancing and ready to be discharged two hours after I gave birth. Talk about a turn-around!
I cleaned up my past and started teaching pregnant women how to do the same: I watched them unleash their divine feminine powers and enjoy their birthing process within every given circumstance! I have since made a commitment to dedicate the rest of my professional life to helping other women release their inner blocks, tapping into their inner Goddess and have the most blissful birth experience they desire.
Since then, I’ve worked with many private clients, spoken in front of countless groups: I lived my dream of traveling to Hawaii, Belize, Costa Rica and Jamaica and earning an income while I travel with my online business; and I have created Your Magical - Divine Feminine - BlissBirth System, a series of 10 important inner and outer divine feminine cultivating steps every mother or new mother needs to apply to get out of their own way and achieve their magical, blissful birth effortlessly.